The coffee’s hot, the list is long and the resentment is growing: Why is it so hard to relax when he can?

You keep doing more because stopping feels uncomfortable. Somewhere along the way “busyness” became the way of proving you’re worthy. In this post, I share how unspoken resentment, martydom, and the inability to rest often come from deeper emotional patterns, and what it takes to start untangling them. ”